Does it feel like remaining married is like a prison sentence? But the only reason you stay is because you fear spending 6-figures or more to legally exit? Or are you so emotionally spent from being unhappy, you fantasize daily about your prison break, even if it costs your kids’ inheritance?
The reality is that it is easier for lawyers to file lawsuits and charge you for the fallout. The reason why I changed my practice model, however, is because my heart broke for the future expense borne by the children.
And it doesn’t make a difference if you wait until they graduate high school.
Since deviating from the traditional litigation path, I have saved my clients millions in unnecessary legal expenses. Even more, I help parents co-create the future relationship dynamic and estate plan they wish to leave for their children.
My approach has been so effective, one of my former divorce clients asked me to officiate their daughter’s wedding. What we all experienced that day was a family that still loved each other very deeply. What made the difference in this family was their willingness to figure out their conflict in a way that did not alienate their children or destroy their hope for a future filled with love and possibility.
Divorce should be treated as the nuclear option—the last legal resort after all other peace efforts have been exhausted. There are numerous legal paths available to families in conflict that can completely change the course of your relationship dynamic without the devastation of divorce.
If you would like to explore whether private, creative dispute resolution is a good fit for your family situation, book your free strategy session with me by visiting https://lawforlove.com/marriage-toolkit.
Be blessed and encouraged,
Judge Char
Certified Arbitrator
Family Coach
Reformed Divorce Attorney
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