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Judge Char shares principles of life, love & relationships

 
What's LAW got to do with it? How the church has been failing your marriage


Are you a professional woman of faith that is dominating in every area of your life except in your marriage? Have you been talking to the pastors who tell you that God hates divorce, but secretly looking into your legal options to get out of the pain that you've been stuck in? 
 
Because it seems like God is not answering your prayers…?
 
What if I told you that the answer to your prayer is for you to become the miracle you've been waiting for? 
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How to handle MALICOUS breach with GRACE


Most people are willing to give another person a “pass” for an accidental relationship breach. However, many people struggle with navigating the more nefarious, excruciating, and life altering fallout when they are the target of an intentional or malicious act of harm from someone in their intimate space. 
 
How do I deal with that kind of breach with grace? 
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How to handle breach with grace: A strategic analysis (pt. 1)


Are you struggling with unresolved fury caused by a broken promise, failed expectation, or other hope you had for your relationship? 
 
I've been talking a lot about the contractual nature of relationships. I believe this is an important step to better communicate and harmonize with the people in our lives. Contracts are the relational motor oil that decreases friction caused by misunderstandings. Contracts are also the runway to maximize fulfilling and fruitful relationships. Ultimately, I believe that the divine nature of our human design is the pursuit of purposeful productivity—especially in relationship to one another.
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