Law for Love | Pastor at Law

Your Relationship Contracts Expert

Negotiating Deals for Love, Leadership & Legacy

Discover the transformative power of working with Char, a renowned advocate for love, inspirational leadership, and legacy planning that ensures a lasting generational impact.

For nearly 14 years, Char has made a profound difference in the lives of thousands of individuals and families. When you work with Char, you receive the attention, dignity, and compassion you deserve, along with a forward-thinking approach that leads to sustainable victories in your personal and work life.

Char's influence extends far beyond her direct clients. Through her inspirational writing, thought-provoking trainings, and strategic advising for business leaders, she has empowered others to embrace courage and create meaningful impact through their entrepreneurial ventures. Her expertise in relationship contracts uniquely positions her to help you unlock confidence, deepen connections, and find the courage to thrive.

Partner with Char to not only secure your personal and professional goals, but also to join a movement that drives change on a local, national, and international scale. Experience the lasting impact of her guidance and become part of a legacy that spans generations to come.

Sherlyn "Char" Selassie

Attorney at Law

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Mediated Marriage Miracles

The Answer You

Have Been Searching For

Law for Love combines contracts, compassion, and care to mediate difficult the most family conflicts. This process has delivered sustainable, legally binding solutions for our families. Don't allow miscommunication, mistrust, and distance keep you frustrated by broken relationships.

Understand how to resolve your differences, increase connection, confidence and courage at home, work and beyond.

Activate Legal Thinking to Eliminate

Burnout and Compassion Fatigue

Discover how legal thinking can resolve internal and interpersonal conflicts in "The Law of Care" by Attorney Char. This book combines the power of legal reasoning with compassion to deliver life-changing results. Whether you're seeking to overcome internal struggles, improve relationships, or find the courage to lead, "The Law of Care" offers a transformative tool to address challenges rooted in mental contracts which result from childhood neglect and abuse.

Book Char as Your Relationship Contract Expert

for Love, Leadership & Legacy

Char is an engaging speaker, author and who inspires people to step into their highest potential. Her trainings include a unique legal-relational paradigm and methodologies that: confront and eliminate internal conflict; improve interpersonal connection at home and work; and equipping the next generation of leaders to make a lasting impact in their community. Char's powerful mediation trainings and relationship principles deliver practical insight are are designed to motivate lasting change in every relationship--personally and professionally.

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Mediation

Law for Love is an industry leader in the method of Compassionate Family Mediation. Our unique approach nurtures privacy, respect, and safety for both parties.

Mediation services are available for:

Divorce/Separation

Marriage Reconciliation

Coparenting

Estate Planning

We believe that planning for the ones you will leave behind is the greatest act of love. This process requires vision, courage, and care. We provide expert and compassionate guidance and support to help you make these very important decisions.

Estate Planning services

are available for:

Customized Trust Planning

Group Workshops

Legal Coaching

Law for Love specializes in equipping, encouraging, and empowering our clients to make lasting changes through their legal battles and beyond. This powerful approach incorporates legal advice and practical guidance navigating relationships with yourself and with others.

Legal Coaching services

are available for:

Individuals involved in contested litigation

Couples working through postnuptial agreements to strengthen trust and connection.

Marriage & More

If you are planning to marry, or looking to strengthen your marriage, we can help. Our families benefit from the power of mediation, life coaching, and legal principles to build stronger, lasting foundations.

For inspirational resources, visit our Events and Books pages to access additional resources that come from the heart. Char’s passion for healing, authenticity, and inspiring others shines through in her writings, courses, and more.