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Practical insights for transforming yourself and your relationships

Explore a growing collection of insightful tools, teachings, and guidance designed to help you approach life with clarity, confidence, and compassion.





What You’ll Find
  • Faith-centered legal insight
  • Practical mindset and transformation tools
  • Encouragement for purpose-driven living
  • Resources to help you move forward with hope
Legal Thinking for Survivors of Abuse
Think Like a Lawyer and Reclaim Your Power
 
 
Unlock the power of legal thinking with this practical guide to legal problem-solving. Attorney Char Selassie has combined her own journey through childhood trauma and her mastery of legal writing and analysis to teach you what every lawyer already knows. If you are ready to break cycles of conflict in your life, then get your copy of The Law of Care today.

How we saved MILLIONS of dollars for families in conflict
This process will save an average of $15 - $20K in attorney's fees for your custody case
 
 
Stop guessing and start strategizing. This 4-Step System teaches the “Best Interest of the Child” legal standard in a practical and highly accessible way.
By completing this system, you will have a streamlined, easy-to-follow roadmap for proving your case in court.
This system saves you more than $15,000 in billable legal hours for work that attorneys do WITH their custody clients.
By completing this system, you have done 90% of the work needed for your day in court!

Raw & Revealing
A personal journey and devotional to overcome fear ahd helplessness
 
 
Sherlyn "Char" Selassie shares her inspirational journey in her first book, Trauma Transformation. Witness her personal transformation and begin your own with this 30-day devotional. Char uses the exact same systematic legal thinking she learned in law school to help you take hold of your personal power.





Why (and How) I Finally Resolved the "Divorce Question"
Your comprehensive guide to approaching thequestion with all options on the table
 
 
This guide gives you legal insight with the compassion of a spiritual guide. Absolutely no judgment. Only practical considerations for helping parents navigate the divorce question in a child-centered way. 
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