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Judge Char shares principles of life, love & relationships

 
Before You Rage Quit (Pt. 1): Understanding the Law of Complacency Drift


Are you tapped out on love? You’ve tried everything…
 
Therapy…
 
Couple’s counseling…
 
Church intervention…
 
And no matter how much you pray, cry, and try, you are left feeling tapped out and disappointed with your marriage?
 
What if I told you that you have been playing the game all wrong? And that your contentment and joy are within reach if only you would run the right plays?
 
You see, love is a game. Not in the way that there is a winner or a  loser. To the contrary, most marriages flounder when a husband and wife lose sight of the fact that they are on the same team. The field goal is unity. The end zone is “till death do us part.” But today, too many beautiful and loving couples are losing the game to divorce because they simply don’t know the rules to the game. In this post, I am sharing one of three simple ways to run better plays as you master the game of love.


 
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The #1 reason weddings should be funerals


Have you ever hurt someone else by serving yourself? Has the same ever happened to you? In a society dominated with the YOLO philosophy of “do what you will,” it is no surprise why the death toll of marriages is astronomical. Ultimately, the feel-good foundation most relationships are built on is nothing more than an eggshell. 
 
Given the current crisis of marriage, this evidentiary standard and statement of law is intended to challenge the prevailing societal norms and raise the question whether it is more appropriate to host weddings with the solemnity of funerals, rather than the revelry of a party.
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The #1 Law to Leverage Limitless Love


Do you ever feel like screaming, running or rage quitting whenever a disagreement arises in your relationship? Have you found yourself feeling threatened whenever negative emotions pop up like a whack-a-mole in the middle of your love affair? Do you find—more often than not—a sense of guilt or shame for the way you respond in the heat of the moment? 
 
Law can often be discovered at the center of two extremes. What I am revealing in this post is one of the most hidden, yet powerful laws that unlock unlimited potential—and love. 
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