Avoiding a Nasty Divorce Starts with Getting Clear on Your Goals
The question that has helped THOUSANDS of my clients the most is "What are your goals?"
When you are in the middle of a breakdown in your marriage, it is tempting to seek this answer from someone else. But the biggest mistake you can make is designing your future based on everyone else's opinion.
Even more, it is extremely important for you to understand that not all lawyers are alike. In fact, what most people think lawyers should be (aggressive, argumentative, and adversarial), is the WRONG approach for most family situations. And unfortunately, too many people learn this the hard way after they and their family have been processed through the sausage grinder of the legal system by lawyers who simply don't care about what happens to your family after your case is closed.
That leads to the warning I have given clients more time than I can count: "Divorce is not a magic pill"
So what is your plan?
The good news is there are lawyers who care. We don't make the most noise because we are often working in the background giving compassionate counsel and sustainable solutions to the clients we serve.
If you goal is punishment, scorched earth, and suffering for years to come, than this is not the book for you or your family.
But if you love your family, and just want to stop the bleeding, then DIVORCE REVOLUTION will present you with insights developed from nearly 14 years of family law practice. Most importantly, this book will empower you to avoid the pain of making a difficult situation even worse.