Think Like a Lawyer Fight Like a Lover® Transformative Mediation Certification
Bridging legal rigor and therapeutic insight for working-class families in custody disputes. A 2-day in-person intensive plus a 12-week supervised practicum for licensed therapists, social workers, psychologists and family law attorneys.
Early Bird tuition $1,495 through January 15, 2027
Moving Beyond Adversarial Family Courts
When working-class parents face high-stakes custody disputes, retaining a private Guardian ad Litem or custody evaluator is often financially impossible. Vulnerable children are left caught in bitter legal gridlock.
The Community Justice Institute offers a proven alternative: training mental health clinicians and legal advocates in the transformative framework of Think Like a Lawyer Fight Like a Lover®.
You will learn to guide disputing parents out of courtroom warfare and into kitchen-table conflict resolution, structuring durable, child-centered agreements built on universal Best Interest of the Child standards.
Moving Beyond Adversarial Family Courts
When working-class parents face high-stakes custody disputes, retaining a private Guardian ad Litem or custody evaluator is often financially impossible. Vulnerable children are left caught in bitter legal gridlock.
The Community Justice Institute offers a proven alternative: training mental health clinicians and legal advocates in the transformative framework of Think Like a Lawyer Fight Like a Lover®.
You will learn to guide disputing parents out of courtroom warfare and into kitchen-table conflict resolution, structuring durable, child-centered agreements built on universal Best Interest of the Child standards.
Register for the Cohort
48 Total Hours of Mastery
12 in-person intensive hours, 24 direct supervised service hours, and 12 live masterclass hours.
Think Like a Lawyer
- Civil dispute architecture, procedural neutrality and high-conflict caucuses
- Sifting objective facts from emotional hyperbole with an evaluator's clinical lens
- Drafting court-compliant MOUs without crossing into UPL
Fight Like a Lover
- Deconstructing Best Interest of the Child legal elements
- The Build Your Case at Home model for parent self-audits and co-parenting logs
- Coercive control and IPV screening, mandatory reporting and Consent Orders
12-Week Supervised Practicum
- 2 hrs/week direct client service on live family matters under CJI's umbrella
- 1 hr/week Wednesday masterclass, 8–9 PM EST via Zoom
- Live case debriefs, impasse troubleshooting and peer consultation with senior faculty

Learn from Sherlyn "Char" Selassie
With 16 years of family law experience, Char brings compassionate counsel and passionate protection for children to every case. Through private mediation and arbitration, she has helped families secure their legal rights while keeping the best interest of the child at the center.
A mother in a blended family, home school parent, author and leader in community legal education, Char makes the law relatable for everyday families, and now trains the next generation of transformative neutrals.
Your Investment & Returns
Graduate as a Certified Transformative Family Neutral (CTFN) on CJI's contractor roster, where referral compensation can recoup your full tuition after your first contracted family matter.
Frequently Asked Questions
Only 24 Seats. Keep Children at the Center.
Join a cohort of clinicians and attorneys transforming how working-class families resolve custody conflict.