Sherlyn ("Judge Char") Selassie
Licensed Attorney. Certified Arbitrator



Limited-Time Offer

Case Evaluations Are $3,797

$2,498

For a limited time, schedule a Case Evaluation for $700 and get clear next steps aligned with your priorities. This service is limited to 1 hour presentation by each side. Please allow a minimum of 14 days for delivery of our written evaluation.

*Availability is limited and pricing may change without notice.

Frequently Asked Questions About a Case Evaluation by an Arbitrator

Get clear answers about what a case evaluation is, how it works, what you’ll receive, and how to prepare—so you can decide your next steps with confidence.

What is a case evaluation by an arbitrator?
A case evaluation is a structured review of your situation where an arbitrator helps you understand likely legal pathways, risks, and options. It’s designed to give you clarity on strategy and next steps—without the delays and escalation that often come with traditional litigation.
Is a case evaluation the same as arbitration?
No. A case evaluation is an advisory, strategy-focused process that helps you assess options and plan. Arbitration is a formal dispute-resolution process that can result in a binding decision. Your evaluation can help you determine whether arbitration (or another ADR pathway) is a good fit.
What will I receive after the evaluation?
You’ll leave with clear next steps, priority issues to address, and an informed view of potential timelines and cost drivers. If appropriate, you may also receive recommendations about dispute-resolution options (such as mediation, arbitration, or strategy-first ADR) aligned with your goals and constraints.
How should I prepare for the evaluation?
Bring a short timeline of key events, a list of your top concerns, and any essential documents that help explain your situation (orders, agreements, key communications, or financial snapshots). If you’re unsure what matters most, bring what you have—we can identify what’s relevant during the session.
Is the evaluation confidential?
In general, ADR-oriented conversations are designed to be more private than courtroom proceedings. Confidentiality can depend on the specific process and agreements in place. If confidentiality is a primary concern, we’ll address it upfront and outline practical safeguards.
How do I schedule a case evaluation?
Use the button on this page to request your case evaluation. If you have questions before booking, schedule a Strategy Session here
Are you able to help us with mediation after the case evaluation?
Yes. Since 2020, we have navigated families through private and discreet discussions to help them move beyond their differences. Our approach is very creative, faith inspired, and restorative for both sides. To  plan your budget and understand the options we provide, visit https://lawforlove.com/pricing.
If you’d prefer to speak first, schedule a Family Strategy Session here.

Benefits of Hiring a Case Evaluator Before Going to Court

A case evaluation gives you clarity and leverage before you spend months (or years) in litigation. Here’s what most people gain by getting an informed, strategy-first review early.

Clarity on your strongest options

Understand the most realistic legal pathways, what matters most to decision-makers, and the tradeoffs of each route—before you commit to litigation.

Save time and reduce unnecessary spend

Spot cost drivers early (discovery traps, motion cycles, avoidable conflict) so you can focus resources on what actually moves your case forward.

A stronger settlement posture

When you know your priorities and pressure points, you negotiate from a position of preparation—often improving the odds of resolution without court.

A practical plan for documents and evidence

Get guidance on what to gather, what to ignore, and how to organize key facts so your next steps are efficient and legally meaningful.

Reduced stress through informed choices

Uncertainty is expensive emotionally. An evaluation helps you prioritize, set boundaries, and choose next steps aligned with your values.

A clear “go / no-go” decision on court

If court is necessary, you’ll move forward with a better strategy. If it isn’t, you’ll know what alternatives can protect your interests.

Have a quick question before booking? Email admin@lawforlove.com.

Judge Char’s Personal & Professional Experience

You deserve guidance from someone who understands both the legal system and the lived realities of family life. Here’s a snapshot of the experience Judge Char brings to your case evaluation.

Personal Experience

Perspective built through decades of family leadership and real-world parenting.

  • Married since 2009
  • Parenting since 1993

Legal & Courtroom Experience

Strategy-first support informed by hands-on practice and child-focused legal work.

  • 14 years legal practice
  • Former Guardian ad Litem

Faith, Education & Guidance

A steady, values-aligned approach focused on clarity, accountability, and next steps.

  • Licensed Clergy
  • Legal Educator and Consultant
Questions before you book? Email admin@lawforlove.com.

7-Step Case Evaluation Process

A simple, structured path to get both sides heard and receive clear written recommendations for next steps.

Invite the other side

Invite the other side to view this page and agree to the process.

Begin the case evaluation

Begin the Case Evaluation by clicking the button below.

Sign the ADR agreement

Sign the ADR Agreement to confirm the structure and expectations.

Schedule your 1-on-1

Schedule your 1-on-1 to present your side of the story.

Send supporting evidence

Email all evidence you have to support your side.

Space for the other side

Allow time and space for the other side to present their case.

Review your written evaluation

Review your written Case Evaluation and the recommendations we make for moving forward.

Need help inviting the other side? Email admin@lawforlove.com.